WHILE I’M WAITING: Advise for Single People While Waiting for the Right One

Happy Hearts Day Friends!..

Kisses to you Friends! Happy Hearts Day! :)

Kisses to you Friends! Happy Hearts Day! 🙂

Hope your having a sweet day with your special one, friends and family! This is not just a day for lovers but all the people you love, so if you are single like me, open your windows, welcome the sunlight, dress up, put a nice make up on and hang out with your love ones! 🙂 You can even spend it at home with your family and enjoy the Hearts Day with them! 🙂

Have a lil advise for single people like me 🙂 *whispers*  There is a reason for this season fellow singles! 🙂

1. DON’T BE BITTER OR SAD. Hey gurl! You are wonderfully made by our Lord, so why waste your time being bitter about someone and ruining your entire life just because you got hurt by a guy long time ago? Arent you happy that God freed you from a wrong one? I know, i know! Youré telling me that I wont understand you because I have never wore your shoe. Free yourself from any hatred to welcome a new love. Surrender everything to God and let Him be incharge of this aspect. Do you know that every heartbreak is a blessing? I wanna quote a song from Rascal Flatts entitled God bless the Broken Road.

Every long lost dream led me to where you are
Others who broke my heart they were like Northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you

Let us thank those people who hurt us and pray for them as well, because that heartache will lead us to our eternal happiness.

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2. ENJOY THE PROCESS OF WAITING AND BE PATIENT. I know once in our life we told our self this phrase and end up being the opposite. Hehe! Ofcourse we do!  But friends, we should exercise this for real, not only it will save us from numerous heartbreaks from the wrong one but it will also prepare us PROPERLY when the right one comes. OH! it sound so right! 🙂 There maybe lots of peer pressure around you since all your friends have boyfriends but people have different seasons in life and this season is yours to enjoy! FOCUS ON GOD during waiting season, this is the perfect time to do what God has told you to do and pray intently for the right person.

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3. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GODLY SINGLE FRIENDS. Sure it isn’t an easy journey for us but God said He will make it fruitful and enjoyable in every way. *Sigh* It is always great to have some people walking with us side by side, greater if they are in the same season! When we tend to fall apart and stray away from the will of God in our life  Godly friends will be a reminder for us to stay in the path of righteousness. Sharing each other testimony inspires us as well to wait patiently for the right one. Like the Bible says,”encourage one another daily and build each other up”. 1 Thessalonians 5:11

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4. EXPLORE AND BE ADVENTUROUS. Being single is such a wonderful season for exploring the world, travelling and being adventurous. Think of something you’ve been wanting to do, something in your bucketlist, maybe  trekking, rappelling, climbing a mountain, going out of country for vacation, treating yourself in a luxury spa, etc. Enjoy every inch being single specially with friends and family.

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5. BE BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT. Dont think that just because you are single you have a passport to be not presentable besides we, singles need to be more beautiful! Try on decent and flattering dresses and simple make up. Just as how you keep your outer beauty dont neglect taking care of your inner beauty. You can go and help out on charity events and fund raising activities in the church, go on a Youth camping and singles retreat, volunteer in the church ministries and  win friends!

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6. TRUST GOD AND BE FAITHFUL. Have a hopeful heart that God will give the right person at the right time. Be still and trust God in everything including a significant half. God loves relationship and He wants us to have a wonderful one! *Giggles* Always pray God for wisdom, patience and a Christ-centered relationship.

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Being single is not a sad season,infact,  it is a great time for friendship and other non-romantic relationship. It is when God is honing and preparing you in your next chapter. It is the training ground for the next best wife and mother 🙂

So next time your friends tease you of being single, stand up, smile and say “I’m still in the process of training being the next best wife and mother!” Like a cliche, God is writing the best love story for you 🙂

 

Enjoy! God bless 🙂

 

-Charm

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Love is NOT a fight but it’s something worth fighting for..

Every February, I noticed that people are getting more “sensitive” in the aspect of love. Well, yah, obviously because Valentines day is fast approaching and romantic relationships can be seen extra sweet than the usual days. And while others (specially bitter singles) locked their room and having self pity, we, Christians can see this day as an open door for sharing the gospel and imparting the love of Christ.

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What is Love?

Millions of definitions will flood you if you try to google this one. But for me I would like to define it by quoting a Christian song titled Love is not a Fight by Warren Barfield.

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Love is Not a Fight 

Warren Barfield

Love is not a place
to come and go as we please
It’s a house we enter in
then commit to never leave

So lock the door behind you
Throw away the key
Work it out together
Let it bring us to our knees

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
If we try to leave;
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for

Some love is a word
that they can fall into.
But when they’re falling out
keeping that word is hard to do

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
If we try to leave;
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for

Love will come to save us
If we’ll only call
He will ask nothing from us
but demand we give our all

Love is a shelter
in a raging storm
Love is peace
in the middle of a war
If we try to leave;
May God send angels to guard the door
No, Love is not a fight
but its something worth fighting for…

It speaks for itself isn’t it? Love is not supposed to hurt but to heal and bring happiness.

This is also the sountrack of a great Christian movie entitled Fireproof, a story of a couple with a dying relationship, rekindled their love through loving God and putting Him at the center of their relationship. Oh! I remember the scenes and makes me wanna watch it again! This is a must-watch specially for married or soon to be married couples 🙂

Enjoy! God bless

-Charm

LOVE: Its Complicated

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When to love? How to love? Who to love?

Love is a broad issue with different meaning. Your definition of love may not be in line with mine. Others may have their own too.

But where do love meet between the realm of heart and mind? Where does mutuality lies? Where do beating become one?

From one state of thinking, you may thought ive never been to this since these questions arise. I dont know. Maybe there are different approaches in different ppl we love. Like what i said, we have our own unique definition of what love is. One approach may not be applicable to another. While it effectively make its worth into one. ITS COMPLICATED. Maybe thats where it lies. When definition and emotion collides.

Im pretty sure once in our life we have been a victim of love’s tricks. Somehow it confused us, left us bothered or bring us sleepless nights brought by love’s diverse meaning. But isnt it wonderful how love meet at the center of everything despite the complications and diversity of what it meant? How about the miracle of two ppl from different parts of the world become one in love?

Know why?

Because ever since the creation of the world, God demonstrated LOVE for us…

and it will be until the world perished…

 

Happy February Lovies 🙂

 

Enjoy! God bless

-Charm 🙂

Make a Difference

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“You do not belong to the world”(John 15:19), God reminded as I stare blankly in the space. My mind is pre-occupied with hanging questions that pertains to the world.

I remember a friend told me, “you’ll understand and do it soon.” talking about the pre marital sex. I tried not to react violently, rather, I asked her why. “Because that’s the trend and its normal.” she replied. “Not because everybody is doing it, means that its right.” I justified. The conversation goes on until I decided to keep quiet and silently pray for the world. A clear realization was formed in my mind. I was challenged.

Chasing purity isn’t easy yet possible. Yes, indeed possible, with God ,even in the midst of this modern era.

Our generation had been socially degraded, pre-judged and moulded into someone were not. The world makes us think that it’s ok not to pursue purity; because being impure is “normal” and staying pure is “weird and not cool”. Some teaches us to be mediocre so not to be called “trying hard”. Others encourage us to love material things in which they determine your value and worth.

“Iba na talaga ang mga bata ngayon” (children nowadays are really different), a cliché. I agree, were different, cause this generation is called by God.

An ambitious generation that will fill the world with Word!

A dynamic young people that will stand up for God!

A strong willed group that will strive for the Lord’s purpose!

We are the light of the world and..

WE WILL MAKE A DIFFERENCE!

 

I’ll be a bride in God’s perfect time :)

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Let us rejoice and be glad
and give him glory!
For the wedding of the Lamb has come,
and his bride has made herself ready.

– Revelation 19:7

No, Im not getting married, I dont even have a boyfriend atm, but hopeful that I’ll wear my own bridal gown in God’s perfect time.. ❤

Enjoy! Godbless

-Charm 🙂

God’s Message to All the Girls

Seven years ago, I received a forwarded text message from a friend, I was really touched that it struck me within and found myself memorizing it…I told myself that I’m gonna live with it…

Now, after the ups and downs that I’ve been through, I encountered this message again. I went back years ago and examine myself if I have done what I promise 7yrs ago… Unfortunately,I failed..

I’m 23 yet my life’s experiences are far beyond the usual 23-year-old girl. I’ve been into different relationships and taken love superficially. Though I may say every relationship is a learning experience to me, it will still leave me hurting…

To have a right relationship with someone, one must have a right relationship with God first. It was like a building on a firm foundation… The stronger the foundation is, the better building you’ll have…

So girls, Set your standards high. Place boundaries and don’t let anybody cross over it. We are princesses in the Kingdom of God and no one has the right to make us cry! 🙂

Here is God’s message to us.. I know you have read this several times but let it not be limited to our eyes. Keep it inside your heart and live with it… 🙂

 

No man can ever claim you 

unless he claims you from Me.

I reserve a man for you.

Who has My heart and loves Me

even MORE THAN he will love you.

I won’t give you unless he ask you from Me.

Soon, you will know him

I have a PERFECT TIME.

Your My PRINCESS, My daughter

Let no prince claim you

Unless he asks you from My hand

For I am your FATHER, the KING of KINGS

YOU, My Princess

is WORTH LOVING…

 

-Your Father,

  GOD

Enjoy! God bless!

-Charm 🙂

 

[Jan.15,2013] Today, Charm, we believe God wants you to know that …

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only through love of God you can understand life.

Reading and thinking and talking can show the direction to God, but only opening your heart in love and surrender can lead to God. What better way to love God than to love the miracles of God’s creations. Look and you shall see miracles everywhere.

-Today’s message of God Facebook application

You, My Father…

You are a cup of coffee in a cold Sunday morning
In a trembling heart, warmth and comfort you bring
You are the cerulean sky after the heaven cried
New hope for tomorrow assured, with You by my side…You are my best friend, I can rely on forever
A half of slipper, can’t walk unless in pair
You’re my adviser when heart is confused and weary
Hug me tight to take away anxiety…

You are my Father that provides for me
A tough wall I can lean for eternity
You are the source of my strength everyday
That makes me survive in every way…

You are my knight in shining armor
In my life’s voyage, you are my anchor
You are the clouds swathing the firmament
That catches me during falling moments…

You are my Savior that saves me from death
My Redeemer that sustains breath
In my heart you lead, you reign
God Almighty, you take away the pain…

Presently I’ll walk, not alone anymore
Cause there’s already two sets of footprints in the seashore
My God will accompany me up to the finished line
His love is unending; no one can ever define…

-charmz’09
07/14/09
4:22pm